Family Therapy for Addiction & Substance Use
When someone you love struggles with alcohol or drugs, it affects everyone at home. At New Growth Recovery, family therapy for addiction gives everyone a place to be heard and learn practical skills to move forward together.
- Same-day and next-day assessments are often available.
How Addiction Affects Families
Addiction changes routines, finances, and emotional safety at home. Over time, people slip into familiar roles:
- The “fixer” who tries to manage every crisis
- The “peacekeeper” who avoids conflict
- The “hero” who overachieves to distract from chaos
- The “scapegoat” who gets blamed when things go wrong
The impact can include:
- Anxiety about relapse, health crises, or legal trouble
- Broken trust around money and promises
- Children taking on adult responsibilities too soon
- Partners feeling more like caregivers than spouses
- Shame and isolation from friends or family
When alcohol is involved, families often deal with unpredictable moods, anger, or emotional distance that leaves everyone feeling unsafe. Substance abuse family therapy gives you a structured space to name these patterns and start changing them together.
What Is Family Therapy for Substance Abuse?
During addiction family counseling, you’ll:
Learn how addiction changes the brain and relationships
Understand what keeps unhealthy cycles going
Look at how communication or secrecy feeds the problem
Set shared goals for recovery
Create a clear support plan
Your clinician may use behavioral family therapy, systemic family therapy, or cognitive-behavioral approaches based on your needs.
Who Can Benefit From Family Therapy for Addiction?
Family therapy helps families in many situations, providing support for families of addicts.
Spouses and Partners
Partners are provided a safe space to talk honestly about how addiction has affected the relationship. Your therapist may suggest partner-only sessions, joint meetings, or couples-focused work based on your needs.
Sessions help you:
- Set boundaries without feeling guilty
- Decide what you will and won’t tolerate
- Rebuild closeness after lies or broken promises
- Understand the difference between support and enabling
Parents of Adults or Teens
Parents of children who are facing substance use also receive tailored support. Your therapist may recommend parent-only sessions, in-person or online counseling, and structured calls to practice new boundaries.
You’ll get help with:
- Responding to manipulation or crises more calmly
- Stop rescuing in ways that enable addiction
- Creating a consistent plan around money and housing
- Supporting recovery without trying to fix everything
Children and Teenagers of Alcoholics
We don’t enroll children as participants, but we build support for them into each parent’s treatment plan. During intake, your therapist asks about your kids, then offers parent-only sessions, age-appropriate education, and family sessions.
This helps children and teens:
- Make sense of their experiences
- Learn to trust and set healthy boundaries
- Break generational patterns of addiction and codependency
Help for Families of Addicts and Alcoholics
Many loved ones feel stuck between wanting to help and fearing they’re enabling. Family therapy at New Growth gives you practical support: how to set boundaries that stick, respond when treatment is refused, and protect your own mental health.
How Family Therapy Fits Into Treatment
Extended Day Treatment (PHP-Equivalent)
Full-day therapy with individual, group, and family sessions to build structure.
Substance Abuse Day Treatment (IOP-Equivalent)
9–12 hours per week with family programs and relapse-prevention work.
Virtual therapy for flexible scheduling, including online family sessions.
Ongoing family support and help in rebuilding trust after formal treatment.
Disclaimer: Due to Massachusetts licensing, New Growth Recovery uses “Extended Day Treatment” and “Day Treatment.” These are comparable to a Partial Hospitalization Program and an Intensive Outpatient Program, respectively.
“Our family therapists have specific training in substance use, codependency, and family systems, so they’re equipped to support both the person in treatment and the people who love them.”
PFML May Be Available for Massachusetts Families
Many MA employees can take paid time off for family or medical reasons. Your job and benefits are protected.
What to Expect in Family Therapy Sessions
Most family therapy at New Growth includes four core parts.
Education and Psychoeducation
- How substance use disorders develop
- Why addiction is a medical condition, not a moral failure
- How addiction affects mood, memory, and decisions
- Typical family roles in addiction
Healing Communication and Conflict in Recovery
- How to talk about addiction without shaming
- Calmer ways to handle triggers
- What language helps during cravings
- Strategies for repairing relationships hurt by broken trust
Boundaries, Codependency, and Enabling
- Recognizing codependency in families
- Understanding the difference between support and enabling
- Practicing how to set boundaries
- Developing a plan to stop enabling while still caring
Family Relapse-Prevention Planning
- Identifying early warning signs
- Deciding how the family will respond if a slip occurs
- Creating safety plans around driving, finances, or kids
- Staying connected to support after treatment ends
How to Start Family Therapy at New Growth
Getting started is simple, whether you’re starting detox elsewhere, looking for placement, or seeking ongoing treatment.
Call or walk in to begin your intake
Speak with our team about your needs and history
Complete a substance abuse evaluation (can be done virtually)
Verify insurance or ask about payment options
Begin treatment as early as the same or next day
Reviews
“From the moment I stepped inside, I knew it was special. The facility is clean, welcoming, and designed to promote healing.”
– Casey H.
“Beautiful new facility. We’re excited about the partnership ahead; a great addition to the Springfield area.”
– Gary
“Every detail is intentional. The peaceful setting and natural light make a real difference. You can feel the focus on growth.”
– Alexis L.
Disclaimer: Customer reviews may be paraphrased for clarity and brevity.
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FAQs About Family Therapy
How do I help a family member with addiction?
Family therapy gives you a clear plan. You’ll learn what to say, how to set boundaries, and how to support recovery without trying to control every outcome.
What should I do when a family member is addicted but refuses help?
You can’t force treatment, but you can protect your well-being and stop behaviors that keep the addiction going, like getting cover at work or paying fines. Therapy helps you decide what you will and won’t do.
Can I attend family therapy even if my loved one isn't in treatment yet?
Yes. Family counseling helps even when the person isn’t ready for a program. It gives you support and education, so you’re not waiting on their decisions.
Is there support after rehab ends?
Yes. New Growth’s aftercare programs offer ongoing family therapy, relapse-prevention planning, and continued check-ins so you’re not left on your own.
What kinds of addiction can family therapy address?
Family therapy can support loved ones affected by many types of substance use, including alcohol, opioids, benzodiazepines, cocaine, cannabis, and other drugs, as well as some behavioural addictions.
Can family therapy ever make things worse?
Family therapy isn’t recommended in every situation. If there’s active violence or abuse, your clinician may suggest individual support first. Part of the intake is checking whether family sessions are appropriate and safe.
Can we do family therapy online if we don't all live near Springfield?
In many cases, yes. When appropriate, family sessions can be held virtually. Your therapist will talk with you about who should be involved and whether a blend of in-person and online family therapy makes sense.
How long does family therapy usually last?
There’s no fixed number of sessions. Some families attend for a few months around a specific crisis, and others stay involved longer. At New Growth, we’ll review progress regularly and adjust frequency as relationships stabilize.
